For many couples, a divorce can feel inevitable. They may see the signs coming, such as a breakdown of communication or phone numbers for lawyers saved. However, when your spouse unexpectedly files for divorce, it can be devastating. While some have time to emotionally prepare, you may be heartbroken to find that your spouse has made this decision. Unfortunately, you must act quickly to protect yourself. As such, the following blog explores what you should know if you were blindsided by your spouse’s choice to file and why you must contact a Somerset County divorce attorney as soon as possible.
What Can I Expect When My Spouse Files For Divorce?
If your spouse files for divorce unexpectedly, you unfortunately will not know until you are served the divorce papers. Generally, anyone not directly involved in your divorce can serve the papers, but most choose a process server company. As such, a neutral, uninvolved third party can deliver your divorce papers.
When you receive the papers, it’s normal to feel a wide range of emotions, from heartbreak and despair to anger and betrayal, especially if you had no indication your spouse wanted to get divorced. It’s okay to take time to process. However, it’s also important to understand that you must act quickly during this time to ensure you are protected, especially because you will only have 30 days to respond to the papers.
After the server has delivered the documents, you’ll want to take the time to carefully go through them. Generally, there will be two documents. The first is the summons and proof of service, which is there to legally inform you that your spouse has initiated the formal divorce process. Next, you’ll find the complaint. This document includes information about your marriage and the grounds on which your spouse has filed for divorce. The complaint will also contain the requests your spouse makes in regard to child custody, property division, and alimony.
What Steps Should I Take If My Spouse Unexpectedly Files for Divorce?
When you are served, it’s critical to carefully read over the documents, as they’ll contain pertinent information. Generally, one of the most important things you should look for is the date by which you must file a response.
If you fail to file a timely response, your spouse could be awarded a default judgment, which means the court will grant your spouse everything they have requested in the complaint.
As such, the most important thing you should do when blindsided by your spouse’s decision is to connect with an experienced divorce attorney as soon as possible. Many people assume that divorce is just a romantic matter, which is far from the truth. The outcome of your divorce can have drastic legal and financial implications if you do not handle these matters properly.
When you are served, it’s in your best interest to connect with an experienced attorney from the Siragusa Law Firm. We understand how devastating it can be to go through a divorce, especially when you had no reason to believe your spouse would file. As such, our firm can help guide you through this process and handle the legal complexities, so you can focus on healing. Connect with us today to learn how we can assist you.
